So now we can't leave our kids in the car alone?!
Lily, welcome to the liquor store.
On July 1, it became a serious crime to leave your child alone in a car. State legislators felt they had to pass this law because of the 5 percent or so of parents out there in our state who have no common sense and should not be allowed to breed. Such as people who would leave a baby in a hot car while going to bet on horses in Pompano.
That's serious, stuff, I agree. Similar to placing a child in a microwave oven and hitting the "popcorn'' button.
Not sure if you read the story we had about this, when it became law.
The only time I leave my kids in the car alone is when I go the liquor store to buy beer. (How's that for a campaign slogan?)
I run in there for 5 minutes. I think it's fine. Especially since this liquor store was once held up by an armed robber.
I keep reading about how fast a car becomes a sauna when the windows are up, ![]()
so I leave a window slightly cracked. (Will this delay the sauna effect? The stories really haven't said. But I assume so.)
Now I have to worry about an officer quizzing my 5 year old to determine whether I've committed a traffic infraction (for leaving child 1 to 14 minutes), a misdemeanor of the second degree (15 minutes or more) or a felony of the third degree (child suffers permanent damage, other than loneliness).![]()
You could ask my daughter ANYTHING and she would say yes.
"Are you hot, little girl? Are your toes feeling numb? Have you been in here for four and a half hours?''
So I'll either have to take my chances at jail time, or introduce Lily to the tequila and whiskey.
Meanwhile, since the law only applies to kids younger than 6, I can leave my 12-year-old son, Creed, sweltering in the car while I go bet on horses in Pompano.
Thanks, Tallahassee.

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Comments
Is this a joke? Only leaving a child in for 5 minutes is OKAY??! Please, someone tell me this person is writing this tongue in cheek...please??!
Posted by: Robbi | July 17, 2007 1:09 PM
Well, no, it's not a joke. So far my daughter has survived unscathed. I don't even think she broke a sweat. I parked in the shade. I locked the doors.
I don't think I've committed this 'crime' since it became grounds for jail time, though.
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 17, 2007 1:42 PM
I am absolutely floored by the amount of truly stupid and moronic people who have responded thus far.
Forget about the heat in the car; what about the possibility of returning back and having your child missing due to your fixation on liquor or cigarettes?
These people should be fined simply for stupidity.
Posted by: EBarreto | July 17, 2007 1:57 PM
I don't smoke or drink liquor. Just grabbing some Corona Light!
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 17, 2007 2:01 PM
I had 2 cop cars block my car from behind 15 years ago when I stepped into the Deerfield Beach Observer to hand them a check for an ad. I was only 6 feet from my car, could see it clearly through the plate glass window and front door, the windows were all cracked and I'd left my 4 kids in there for about 3 minutes, tops. I just happened to be near the cop shop and some well-meaning officers driving by saw me walk in and leave them.
The officers said it was okay to leave them in there, but I should have left the keys in the ignition and the car running.
Um, okay.
Of course, they also took another 15 minutes to harrass me about my tag (though it was paid and current), and the possibility that I'd stolen the car (older Chev wagon with 4 kids inside..uh, yeah. I guess that happens)
I have 2 more young kids these days and I take them in with me everywhere. The hassle of farting with 2 booster seats for a 60 second errand is nothing compared to dealing with law enforcement who have the ability to take your kid from you.
And hey, maybe Lily might enjoy tequila. ;-)
Posted by: ribsy | July 17, 2007 4:25 PM
You make a great point. Maybe I should spend some time teaching Lily to fasten her own seat belt, and then it wouldn't be such a hassle.
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 17, 2007 4:28 PM
Of course, then she'll also learn how easy it is to unfasten it and start doing it while you're tooling down 95.
I'm an older mom with grown kids and young kids, and I survived being parented in a non-nanny society.
Now it seems we all have to surrender our own common sense to that of the lowest common denominator.
Posted by: ribsy | July 17, 2007 4:36 PM
Exactly. I try not live in fear of the Worst Case Scenario, and to have a little faith that if I pop into the store for 4 or 5 minutes at 6 p.m. when it's not 90 degrees out, that
A. I won't be sent to jail
B. A criminal won't break into my car, hotwire and take off w/ my car and daughter
But I guess that's not acceptable. Some people would call me a bad parent, I guess.
They'll probably criticize me for taking her into the liquor store, too.
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 17, 2007 4:41 PM
"They'll probably criticize me for taking her into the liquor store, too."
Yeah, some might harbor bad thoughts. But hey, you didn't leave her to perish a hideous death in your vehicle, and you didn't send her alone to the liquor store on her trike to pick you up some martini fixins at 10 am.
I usually just buy my kids some Tic Tacs and then all the naysayers can see my trip to the liquor store wasn't simply all about me.
Posted by: ribsy | July 17, 2007 4:47 PM
Ha, Ha, LE actually harassed hubby for leaving a dog in our car when the temp was 38 degrees.
Don't they have more important things to do than patrol the local diners, up North?
Nanny state, here we ARE!!
Posted by: Doggie | July 17, 2007 5:18 PM
As someone who has left her dog in the car (windows cracked, of course) for a mere few minutes while running an errand, I am hesitant to judge. But, we are talking about a child here.
Maybe it's just me, but there are way too many potential hazards out there -- nevermind the heat -- for me to even think about leaving a 5 year old child (or any aged child for that matter) in a car unattended. The child could unfasten him/herself and get lost or hurt. The car could get "jacked." Or worse, some sicko might see it as quite an opportune moment . . . .
I know schlepping with kids is hard; but for me, the harder thing is thinking about the "what if's" of this situation. Should we be legislating common sense? No, I don't think so. But if it helps prevent some senseless accident or crime, I am all for it.
Posted by: Michael's Mommy | July 17, 2007 5:55 PM
But what if I take her in the liquor store and a giant bottle of tequila falls on her head?
I'm kidding.
But who knows, maybe I will stop my evil ways and bring her with me next time. I certainly don't need the police on my case.
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 17, 2007 5:58 PM
Michael's Mommy...there are more potential hazards in the average home than in the confined space of a parked car than I can even begin to list.
If you let your child play alone in a room without supervision for more than a few minutes you are more likely to find a TV falling on them, them choking on a grape, swallowing a poison, sticking something in an outlet, or lighting a match, than you are having them injured in a car seat while a parent runs a super quick run in a store.
I think we all need to get a bit of perspective and step away from our love of freak tragedy.
Posted by: ribsy | July 17, 2007 8:52 PM
You risk your kid's life for watered down Mexican piss? Jack Daniels, sure.
Posted by: Reality | July 18, 2007 10:04 AM
Well sometimes I buy Amstel Lite. Does that make it OK?
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 18, 2007 10:08 AM
Lady,
Get your beer on your own time, Any parent leaving their child or children in a car alone that you are away for more that a minute should be shot!!!!!!!!!!!!! Car jackings, overheated car, child hits shifter by mistake and all the other things that can go wrong. Their not dogs, and dogs by the way are treated better.. Once again, get your lousy beer on your own time .
Posted by: tina | July 18, 2007 12:45 PM
You all must have some really out of control children if you think my little Lily darling would crawl into the front seat, hotwire my car, put it in gear and drive away from her favorite person in the world -- ME!
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 18, 2007 1:18 PM
Sorry, while I sympathize with you, I can't agree. There are too many nutsos around any more to feel safe leaving my child in a car in a parking lot. I agree either make the liquor store an errand you run when not with child, go to Publix so your daughter can sit in the cart, send someone else, or bring Lily with you. I'd rather my child be safe and know that I sometimes drink beer then to be left alone in a parking lot. Who cares if she's in the liquor store if you're only running in for 1 min anyway??
Posted by: Amy | July 18, 2007 5:59 PM
Substitute post office for liquor store.
Run a quick package into the tumbler.
Or the library...drop some books in the drop box.
Or the gas station...put down 10 for 3 gallons.
?
Posted by: ribsy | July 19, 2007 11:06 PM
Actually, yes, I do leave her in the car when I drop books in the library drop. As of yet no bandits have stolen her.
Keep in mind my car doors are locked. This crazed person would not have time to break in AND figure out how to hot-wire my car, before the Plantation cops arrive.
Posted by: Brittany Wallman | July 20, 2007 9:16 AM