Telling the truth about Santa Claus
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By Cindy Kent
Fort Lauderdale mother of three
So help me, yes, I did tell him there was no Santa Claus.
Now, five years later, I'm in the dog house, for that bit of indiscretion.
It came back to haunt me just the other day when my family was sitting on the couch admiring the Christmas tree we had decorated. That's when my 12-year-old son Tom looked to my significant other with baleful eyes and said, "Mom told me there is no Santa Claus."
Then they both glared at me with that unspoken how-could-you look.
So, from the witness stand, (my end of the couch) I recounted what happened:
Back then, my son was seven years old when he cornered me in our laundry room: "Mom, tell me the truth, " Tom said as he blocked the exit. "Is Santa Claus for real?"
"Why yes," I quickly answered. "He's in the hearts of people all ages all over the world."
"But is he a person?" Tom dug deeper.
"Yes, he was known as Saint Nicholas. And through the ages and different cultures, he has lived on," I responded.
"Mom, I want to believe you, but if it's not true, I'll be really disappointed," he sighed.
Gads -- where does he get his material?
"He's real in spirit," I said. (I know -- I talk too much.)
Tom comforted me at that point, letting me believe he was OK with the truth.
"It's all right," he said, patting me on the shoulder. "You can still put presents under the tree after I go to sleep and pretend about Santa," he said softly. "Thanks," I said.
After telling my woeful tale, Tom enjoying every ounce of sympathy for having his childhood Christmas wrenched from him, Tom decided to make an announcement.
With an impish smile, the little dear said, "At least, I still believe in the Tooth Fairy and Easter Bunny!"
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