Telling the truth about Santa Claus
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By Cindy Kent
Fort Lauderdale mother of three
So help me, yes, I did tell him there was no Santa Claus.
Now, five years later, I'm in the dog house, for that bit of indiscretion.
It came back to haunt me just the other day when my family was sitting on the couch admiring the Christmas tree we had decorated. That's when my 12-year-old son Tom looked to my significant other with baleful eyes and said, "Mom told me there is no Santa Claus."
Then they both glared at me with that unspoken how-could-you look.
So, from the witness stand, (my end of the couch) I recounted what happened:
Back then, my son was seven years old when he cornered me in our laundry room: "Mom, tell me the truth, " Tom said as he blocked the exit. "Is Santa Claus for real?"
"Why yes," I quickly answered. "He's in the hearts of people all ages all over the world."
"But is he a person?" Tom dug deeper.
"Yes, he was known as Saint Nicholas. And through the ages and different cultures, he has lived on," I responded.
"Mom, I want to believe you, but if it's not true, I'll be really disappointed," he sighed.
Gads -- where does he get his material?
"He's real in spirit," I said. (I know -- I talk too much.)
Tom comforted me at that point, letting me believe he was OK with the truth.
"It's all right," he said, patting me on the shoulder. "You can still put presents under the tree after I go to sleep and pretend about Santa," he said softly. "Thanks," I said.
After telling my woeful tale, Tom enjoying every ounce of sympathy for having his childhood Christmas wrenched from him, Tom decided to make an announcement.
With an impish smile, the little dear said, "At least, I still believe in the Tooth Fairy and Easter Bunny!"

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Comments
There is no easy way to tell a child the truth about Santa Claus. However, when kids start asking, that means they usually already know the truth and are just looking for confirmation. My best recommendation to any parent who will be faced with having to tell their child the "truth" is to not beat around the bush. My kids enjoyed the magic of Santa, but we have been able to keep Christmas magical in many other ways now that Santa is not at the forefront of the holiday. After all, the real reason we celebrate is not because of some fat man in a red suit, but because our savior was born.
Posted by: John D | December 14, 2007 12:08 PM
What is so funny about this story is just last week my six year old was telling me "Of course there is a Santa Clause but come on Mom, The Easter Bunny? Like I am supposed to believe that some rabbit is hopping all over the world handing out candy? Jeez!" Kids are the best!
Posted by: Mom of Three | December 14, 2007 1:31 PM
The truth about Santa really helped me becaause almost everybody I know is telling me he is real over and over and over again. People tell me he's real every year. But it's nice to actually know the real truth once in a while. So now that I know the truth I don't have to get confused about that again.
Posted by: vanessa | December 13, 2008 6:52 PM