I 'don't like' my stepkids
Stepping into a fatherly role brought up a number of situations I never anticipated. One of them: how do you convey affection?
Most of the times I’ve dealt with other people’s children, this was never an issue. But when Christine and I got engaged, her two girls were about to become mine. I got to know them better than I’ve known anyone else’s children, and they got to know me. We bonded. Soon enough, I wanted to be able to say, as casually as any father would, how I felt.
But I have to admit, it was a little awkward at first. For a short time, I settled on “I don’t like you.” They knew what I meant. Variations popped up.
“I don’t like you too. Very much.”
“I don’t like you, with all my heart.”
It was fun for about a month. Maybe less. Then Christine told me one day that the kids stopped liking “I don’t like you.” It was charming at first, but it outlived its charm.
So it was okay to just say it now.
Kay, Pax... I love you.
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