South Florida Sun-Sentinel
For more Sun-Sentinel lifestyle features, click here.

« Randy Pausch: A Tigger, not an Eeyore | Main | Do cell phones affect kids' developing brains? »

Webkinz ... Does it lead children to more serious abuse of video games?

I feel that I should retaliate against my cousin for buying Lily a Webkinz bunny.

He asked me if she had one, and informed me that his kids love their Webkinz so much theybunny.jpg
are on the computer every single day.

Even though he's one of my favorite cousins, I should have burned the bunny right then and there.

It's cute and all. But Webkinz is one of those stuffed animals that comes with a secret code. And it turns out the bunny can be tossed in the fire. Because as long as your child gets that secret code, he or she has access to a special website where a cyberversion of the bunny "lives.'' And apparently it's so much fun even for a six-year-old, that they will want to hog your computer every extra minute.

I thought we had all decided that people who live cyberlives online, who have "jobs'' and "earn money'' and "purchase things'' all in quote marks, online, are socially deficient and pretty weird. No?

Yet almost every day, I have to hear Lily ask, "Mommy, can I get on w-w-w-dot?'' And I let her.

On the company's website, they answer such questions as: "Are the wishing well and the Wheel of Wow gambling?'' And "Can Webkinz pets die?''

I'll leave you hanging on the answers.

The game is educational I suppose. But so is going to the library and checking out five books.

Should I be writing in her babybook that her first logon name was "crystal5pink'' and her first password "babydolly5''?

And now that you all know her secrets, will she get on the website to find that someone has broken into her bunny's "apartment" and stolen the "pink couch" out of his "bedroom"? Will you get her bunny fired from his "job" "painting fences"?

Please, parents, help me find that perfect Christmas gift for my cousin this year.

POSTED IN: Brittany Wallman (44), Elementary School (34)

Please comment

Comments

If you are that against them you shouldn't let her play online, or limit her time.

The perfect retaliatory gift is another Webkinz right back at 'em. My son lobbied for one, coming short of a Powerpoint presentation, as to why he wasn't too old (9 at the time) or too male to have one. So he got his first macho Webkinz, a German shepherd, and now has about 10 of the furry things. But they're all very manly -- snake, lizard, tiger, frog, chicken, reindeer. But yeah, it's all about the code.

Nope, obviously her cousin doesn't have an issue with the webkins, so sending one back won't have an effect.

The best retaliatory gifts would be something LOUD - like guitar hero, drums, or a karaoke machine.

Yes, it does lead to video game abuse! It's like World of Warcraft for kids.

Post a comment

To help keep spam off our site, please enter the letter "f" in the field below:

The Transparent Team

Joy Oglesby has an infant daughter and a sister 13 years her junior, whom she babies to the now-adult...more.

Rafael Olmeda is a stepfather to two girls, Kayla (15) and Paxtynn (12). They became a family when Rafael married the former Christine Clark...more

Luis F. Perez covers immigration...more.

Matthew Strozier is an assistant city editor, but his real job is father of two boys, Alexander, a toddler, and Rowan, a newborn...more

Anne Vasquez loves to worry, or so her husband says...more.

Daniel Vasquez, the Sun-Sentinel consumer columnist, comes from a large family...more.

Brittany Wallman is the mother of Creed, 11, and Lily, 5, and is married...more.

Subscribe by email

We'll send you every post.
Just enter your email address:

Delivered by FeedBurner

Or subscribe through an RSS reader.

Parenting Podcast

Listen to transPARENT bloggers talk about raising kids of all ages.
   › Anne Vasquez
Powered by Movable Type 3.36
Hosted by LivingDot

Add to Technorati Favorites

Parenting Blogs - Blog Catalog Blog Directory