He's 13. Can I stop parenting now?
Some cultures convey adulthood on a boy when he turns 13. My son's 13 now. Looks like my job is done.
You're 13! Here's
your new car!
You know, that's the age of the Bar Mitzvah. (We're not Jewish, but still!) And according to the great Internet, it's the age in some other countries when a boy is considered a man.
The Internet also tells me that 13 marks the age when a boy can mount an adult size Hippity Hop Ball and have a lot of fun.
And that's exactly what I'm torn with here. Is a 13-year-old a baby, or a little adult who should start making his own decisions in life?
I feel like I've already raised up my child in the way he should go. I've instilled all the character traits and values that will fit.
At this point, I think, I'm pouring into a vessel that is not only full, it is vomiting out everything I attempt to put in.
Should a teen be able to handle their own school responsibilities without a backpack-ransacking parent by now? Should a teen be allowed to skip church sometimes? What about sports and extra-curricular? Let the teen decide?
I'm thinking yes, within reason. If a 13-year-old doesn't have a good parenting foundation by now, it's really probably too late.
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