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Pets for everyone or just my kids?
OK, moral dilemma here. Someone on the condo board asked me recently what I think about the building’s “no pets” policy. There's a movement afoot to reconsider the policy, and as a board member, I might have some sway in the matter.
So here’s the question: Is it OK to support changing the policy to benefit my kids if I wouldn’t otherwise? I grew up with pets, and it’s generally made me a better person (or at least I hope). There are also practical benefits, like cats keeping mice away. Still, truth be told, I don’t want everyone to get a pet. I just want one for my kids. Even then I wonder how a cat or a dog would fit in our condo.
As you can see, I’d like the option for my kids. But as an owner, I worry about people failing to take care of their animals, both for the sake of the animal and the building. So it’s the personal vs. the collective good here. In the immortal words of Bernie Mac, America, what should I do?
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Comments
You have to decide what is more important to you. Your kids getting a pet or protecting your property value. I think it's a bad idea to allow pets in any type of apartment or condo. Your neighbor that lets their cat pee anywhere becomes everyones' problem. Our the person thats dog barks all day while their at work becomes unbearable.
However making a decision based on what you want just for your kids is totally acceptable. That is what parents do all the time; sacrifice for their children. In this case the possible annoyance of having to deal with other peoples pets vs. your child's happiness. Nobody would fault you for making the "daddy decision"
Posted by: choices | December 10, 2008 8:47 PM