Give your advice to a first-time dad
Well, here goes everything.
If all goes according to plan, the next time I report in this space, I will be a biological father for the first time.
I've been a stepfather for the last 19 months, but it's not the same thing. I wasn't there for their births, for their first words or their first steps. I didn't see them off to school for the first time ever, and I missed maybe 100 dance recitals and performances. I've done what I can, screwed up plenty, tried to understand and tried to get them to understand.
I feel as though I have evolved so much in the last two years. I'm no longer the clueless bachelor stepping into fatherhood, but neither do I feel ready for what's coming in just three days. This tiny little boy is about to show up and change everything I've ever known.
Can I confess to being nervous? (Could I possibly deny it?)
One of the things I hear all the time from parents is that they wish they knew then what they know now: about parenthood, about being a father, about life, about children, about what makes a marriage strong...
Well, you can't go back in time, but you can throw a little bit of your hard-earned wisdom in my direction.
So let me have it. Give me one piece of advice, a piece of advice you wish you'd had before you became a dad for the first time.
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