Pull up your pants - and why on earth should we need to ask you to?
When I was in school, we never had a "Pull Up Your Pants Day." Never needed one.
But today, Plantation High School made such a designation.
Seems the trend of young men wearing pants barely above the hips began in the 1980s as a way for gang members to indicate they'd spent time in jail. It caught on as way to show "coolness," independence and defiance.
Broward County public school officials stated their mission in this news release:
“In an effort to reach out to young men and increase their self-esteem and self-image, school administrators and teachers are following President Barack Obama’s call to, 'Men of America – Pull up Your Pants.'"
The program included community leaders, mentors, and alumni handing out belts donated by WalMart to students. Guests attended a luncheon with students involved in the Mentors for Tomorrow’s Leaders Program, followed by a forum and panel discussion facilitated for students and staff. My colleague Gregory Lewis wrote about the event here.
It’s good to put a spotlight on what many people see as a negative message, and the behaviors that accompany it. It was clever and wise to create this program off of current events. Hopefully kids listen.
Rod Hagwood shares his fashion sense on the matter here.
And DetentionSlip has his take on the issue.
Still, I’m a little disturbed – students are rewarded by the attention of good people for what is essentially dressing badly.
When I mentioned the designated day to my son, he said, “Wow, that’s good, because to dress that way is so lame.” I asked him what he meant by that. “Kids don’t even know what that means,” he said. "It’s just stupid. They don’t know why they are even wearing their pants like that.”
Let me be clear, my son has lots of friends who wear their pants low.
I’m thinking now, which is dangerous.
I should give a few community leaders a call and ask them to go have lunch with my son.
They’ll recognize him by how well-dressed he is – he wears his pants around his waist. And he's never gotten any attention for following the rules. That would be nice for a change!
But instead of donating a belt, (he has one, and uses it) maybe they could hook him up with a new backpack — a few zippers are busted on his old one from carrying lots of school books and folders.
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