Teacher's death leaves parents with the funeral decision
What a tragedy for the children whose teacher died yesterday on Interstate 95, and for the woman's family and friends. Sharon Braun, a fourth grade teacher at Stephen Foster Elementary, died in a horrible crash that also critically injured a P.E. teacher at that school, Gail Carter.
Braun's students had to take the FCAT today, anyway.
An elementary school teacher makes a big imprint on a child. And if I were one of the parents of the kids she taught, I'd be trying to decide: Should I take my child to the funeral, or not?
It's going to be traumatic, but might it be therapeutic?
Some experts say if a child is old enough to go to church, he or she is old enough to attend a funeral. Some say a child needs to face the reality of death. Still others say that a child forced to go, or forced to stay away from a funeral, will suffer the most. They're saying the most important thing is that your child makes the choice themselves.
Personally, I think I would take my child. It's a good time to talk about life, and what it all means.
Fourth-graders mourning teacher make it through FCATs Stephen Foster Elementary School teacher killed in collision on Interstate 95By Rafael A. Olmeda and Sallie James
South Florida Sun Sentinel
FORT LAUDERDALE
FCAT testing for fourth-graders today. This is when it counts. No exceptions. Not even for Sharon Braun's fourth-grade class at Stephen Foster Elementary School.
Braun, 58, was killed Monday in an accident on Interstate 95. A day later, her students put their tears aside to concentrate on the test, as they are sure she would have wanted, said Stephen Foster Elementary Principal Michael Cassaw.
"We were very proud of them for pulling through and doing their best," Cassaw said.
Braun, who taught at the school for more than 30 years, was on her way there Monday morning when the car she was traveling in was hit by a truck and overturned. She was thrown from the vehicle and pronounced dead at the scene. Gail Carter, 54, a physical education teacher who was driving, was critically injured in the crash.
Today Carter is still recovering at Broward General Medical Center and hasn't been able to receive visitors yet, Cassaw said. "The students are making her cards and writing her letters. As soon as she can receive them, we'll make sure she gets them," he said.
Students learned of Braun's death Monday through an announcement over the public address system. Grief counselors were called in, and they will likely be back today, said Broward School District spokeswoman Nadine Drew.
Aside from Carter and Braun, the four other passengers in the 1997 Buick were Braun's grandchildren, ages 9, 10, 11 and 11.
Braun's daughter, Dawn Clelland, 36, the mother of two of the children in the car, said Braun had raised her four daughters as a single mother and always remained available to them. When they suffered divorces or lost jobs, Braun was there inviting them to move home, said Clelland.
She also remembered her mother's dedication to Stephen Foster Elementary.
"We grew up with the school," she said. "My mom loved teaching. She never considered doing anything else."
Beth Nanney, a friend for 30 years and a fellow teacher at Stephen Foster, said Braun's death was hard to take in.
"I am in shock," Nanney said. "She was a great friend. She was always there for everybody, and she adored her family. She will be missed by her kids, her school."
The 7:05 a.m. crash near Broward Boulevard occurred when a semitrailer truck tried to change lanes, striking Carter's Buick and causing it to hit a Volvo, Florida Highway Patrol Sgt. Mark Wysocky said. The Volvo struck a light pole; the Buick overturned on the side of the highway.
Cherie Sanders, 28, of Oakland Park, was riding behind the Buick when the accident took place. She helped Braun's grandchildren out of the car and waited with them for help to arrive.
"If this had happened to any of my kids, I'd want somebody there for them," Sanders said.
Braun's grandchildren were taken to Broward General Medical Center for treatment. They escaped major injury.
The driver of the truck, Tracy Fiffia, 42, of Madison, was uninjured. The driver of the Volvo, Pedro Polanco, 34, of Fort Lauderdale, suffered minor injuries.
No charges have been filed, and the crash is under investigation.
Staff writers Kathy Bushouse, Joel Marino and Rafael Olmeda contributed to this report. Sallie James can be reached at sjames@SunSentinel.com or 954-572-2019.

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Comments
I would let the child make that decision. A 4th grader is 10 years old and I think that is old enough to go to a wake or viewing. Of course we would make this very emotional choice after the almighty and important FCAT test was over.
Posted by: karen | March 10, 2009 8:23 PM
Ms.Braun had a huge positve impact on my daughter Jesse. Jesse was in Ms.Braun's class a third grader 2 years ago. I plan to attend services for Ms. Braun.....Jesse now 11 in the 5th grade at a different school is very sad. She is having trouble dealing with the reality of the tragedy. I agree with the writer, that the service will be therapeutic and help my daughter with the reality of life and death. Please keep us updated as to the details ....if Ms. Braun's family is planning a public service. Thank you.
Posted by: amy picard | March 11, 2009 4:43 PM
Ms.Braun had a huge positve impact on my daughter Jesse. Jesse was in Ms.Braun's class as a third grader 2 years ago. I plan to attend services for Ms. Braun.....Jesse now 11 in the 5th grade at a different school is very sad. She is having trouble dealing with the reality of the tragedy. I agree with the writer, that the service will be therapeutic and help my daughter with the reality of life and death. Please keep us updated as to the details ....if Ms. Braun's family is planning a public service. Thank you.
Posted by: amy picard | March 11, 2009 4:44 PM
Funeral arrangements have been made for the popular fourth-grade teacher who was killed in an accident Monday morning on her way to school in Fort Lauderdale Is your Fort Lauderdale restaurant clean? - Click Here..
Visitation for Sharon Braun, 58, will be held on Saturday from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. at the Boyd's Family Funeral Home at 6400 Hollywood Blvd. in Hollywood.
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In lieu of flowers, family members have asked for donations be made to Stephen Foster Elementary (ref Sharon Braun), 3471 SW 22nd Street, Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33312.
Posted by: Rafael | March 12, 2009 1:27 PM
I am one of ms brauns students and whenever people say her name i break down. all my frieands were cryin and i was too. I LOVE YOU MRS BRAUN! GOODBYE
Posted by: Natalia de la Guardia 10 years old | July 20, 2009 10:06 PM
I am one of ms brauns students and whenever people say her name i break down. all my frieands were cryin and i was too. I LOVE YOU MRS BRAUN! GOODBYE
Posted by: Natalia de la Guardia 10 years old | July 20, 2009 10:06 PM