Some of our best writers are... you!
The writers of Moms & Dads struggle on a daily basis to find interesting subjects to share with you, and then we wait to see how you’ll respond.
Sometimes, you shrug. That’s okay, we can take it.
More often, a few people will have something interesting to say, and we appreciate that input.
And now and then, there’s a gem that makes us smile or laugh. This post is dedicated to a few of those gems.
Like the two commenters who chimed in on Cindy Kent’s recent post about making her kid do homework when he’s absent from school due to illness.
“Billybobhobag” was first. “I would probably just not have children so I can not deal with this crap!” he wrote.
Honestly, we don’t know how to respond to that. Fortunately, we didn’t have to. John R. did it for us: “You'd be doing society a favor, billybob. Please stay childless.”
My post on bringing babies to church brought a couple of good responses. My favorite came from Kevin K., who noted, simply, “That’s one of the reasons duct tape was invented.”
So that’s what it’s for.
But the one that really got under my skin was from a poster named Jamie: “Having a baby is purely a narcissistic self-indulgence. Period. Others should not be subjected to those outbursts because you wish to 'have' a baby. It's not all about you sweetie.....so either stay home or get a sitter.”
Ouch. How about finding another church? Isn’t that an option? Sweetie?
Anne Vasquez touched a nerve when she wrote recently about Miami ranking near the bottom of a list of family-friendly cities for raising children. She said Miami should be proud of, among other things, its diversity.
Well, you can imagine how that went over with some folks. But we have to thank canesman for coming to the defense of the Magic City: “I'm originally from Northern Europe. I have lived in numerous countries and cities. I love Miami. Whenever I visit the old country I cuss and complain and can't wait to get back home, yes home, to Miami. Burlington, VT????? I'd go crazy.”
Oh! Burlington, you got told! You gonna let canesman talk about you like that?
Anne's post, by the way, received 99 comments, a pretty healthy response.
Last but not least, my personal favorite. I wrote in April about my surprise when someone sent my teenage stepdaughter a text message wishing her a “Happy 4/20.” For those who don’t know, April 20 is a pseudo-counterculture holiday celebrating marijuana use. The post asked how you, as parents, handle the drug talk in your family. The first response came from a reader who called himself Dan:
“Shut up you stupid whore! DIE.”
Can’t really ask for a better comment than that. Really puts the conversation into perspective, doesn’t it?
Dan later clarified that he uses marijuana (for medicinal purposes, of course).
Why am I not surprised?
The list of favorite comments will constantly change and constantly grow, but on behalf of the Moms & Dads team, thank you for making this part of our job so much fun. We may not always agree, but you do make us think. Hope we do the same for you. Keep those comments coming!

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Comments
Rafael,
Brittany's article on pedophile or grandfather got pretty lively too.
Posted by: DP | September 25, 2009 1:33 PM
Thanks in no small part to your dialogue with a couple of folks. You did a strong job of stating your case. It's still a good discussion, and anyone interested should feel free to jump in:
http://blogs.trb.com/features/family/parenting/blog/2009/09/which_of_the_grandfatherly_str.html
Posted by: Rafael | September 25, 2009 1:45 PM
Of COURSE we are your best writers, since all the real journalists who used to report on real news have been laid off! Sheesh.
Posted by: Joe | September 25, 2009 1:47 PM
I can tell you that in our house, our kids are told the truth, not lies. I understand that there is a lot of money and politics behind our drug laws, but what I don't understand is how lying to the kids by telling them pot is dangerous and just as bad as harder drugs is doing us any favors? It does 2 things, 1) pushes them toward alcohol because its legal, and alcohol is FAR more dangerous, it kills and ave. of 200,000 people each year. 2)the kids that DO try marijuana learn its not that bad at all, and try harder drugs thinking they were lied to about them as well. Our kids are told the truth, marijuana is the safest recreational substance known to man, it has never killed a single person, you cant say that about alcohol, tobacco, or even caffeine!
Posted by: Cindy parent of two | September 25, 2009 2:06 PM
Now, just a minute Cindy. I saw Reefer Madness, so I happen to know that one toke of marijuana can turn someone into a raving luinatic!
Or is that withdrawal?
Posted by: Rafael | September 25, 2009 2:12 PM
Thank you Rafael,
It means alot to me, because it is a subject I deeply feel we need to raise awareness on. I also feel you can disagree with people in a respectful way.
Posted by: DP | September 25, 2009 2:36 PM
Rafael,
Ask Brittany why they can say "whore" but have a problem with private parts? :)
Posted by: DP | September 25, 2009 3:03 PM
Anyone who tries to justify the exclusion of certain words from debate or discussion is doomed from the start, so I won't try to justify it. Our Tom Jicha has written about the curiosity that allows us to express sex acts in a dizzying variety of ways, so long as we don't use a certain four-letter word that rhymes with truck.
It's just the way it is, you know?
Posted by: Rafael | September 25, 2009 3:29 PM
Change has arrived in fundraising. I came across a website www.raisewhileyousave.com (RWYS) the other day when looking into Green fundraising oppurtunities, as I am fed up with my kids going door 2 door and selling cookie dough and magazines. I looked into this new fundraising program which is helping parents Save Money while raising money.they are also helping great causes which don't have any budget to run a fundraiser, as they do all the work for you, by building you a webpage attached to thier website. Thier products are these really snazzy energy saving product kits, which can save parent $100's of dollars on those bills we all hate to open. I thought I would share this information as we could all do with a little extra cash during this economy Im sure. My friend who is a PTA mom is always complaining about the difficulty of getting new ideas, and the lack of interest they have in the same old boring fundraising oppurtunities. I think this is very clever, as the schools and community fundraisers, don't purchase anything, the kids don't need to do anything, the kits save money and help raise money, and apparently they even send the kits out to the parents home, so PTA moms like my friend no longer need to chase moms around the playground to tell them thier products are in the sports hall for collection. we've all been there. :)
Posted by: Kim R. | September 27, 2009 8:53 PM
So what do you guys think? Should I delete obvious spam whenever it pops up, or should I call it out?
Posted by: Rafael | September 28, 2009 7:53 AM
Call it out AND delete it!
Posted by: DP | September 28, 2009 8:51 AM
It was a very nice idea! Just wanna say thank you for the information you have shared. Just continue writing this kind of post. I will be your loyal reader. Thanks again.
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