It's such a cliche, the best part of my vacation is coming home
One recent vacation meant spending time without The Kid.
It was nice, I won't lie. But I missed him. I won't lie about that either.
I can survive without my children around (but only for a while). Still, we had adult time for days in a row. And over the summer, he had a vacation without us. And he's already participated in overnight school field trips.
And frankly, I'm the clingy one - every once in a while, I check the blog Free-Range Kids, to help me become more of a free-range mom, to be honest!
We were only a phone call away and he could have called us everyday. We called him a few times to chat. We sent postcards too.
The Kid truly has developed a confidence about his independence - or maybe it's me that is growing. I never took time away from his older brother or sister. And I didn't let them out of my sights.
But I think it is a healthy and normal part of growing up. I spent time away from my family as a kid. A summer camp here, visiting grandma there - overnight sleepovers at friends. IAnd many Saturdays, I even walked from my house to a major mall, as a kid.
Still, there were great things about our vacation: Back at home, The Kid made his school lunch everyday, did his homework, took out the trash, fed the pets and did the dishes. And not once did the adult staying with him have to ask him to do any of that.
I think giving children day to day responsibilities and having expectations about how those are carried out help to build a foundation for when they really are on their own.
But then, there's always coming home. That's nice, wonderful, actually, and I won't lie about that either!
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