Matching the right pet with the right kid.
Can't wait to get a cute puppy for your equally cute toddler?
Not a good idea, according to the concise but nifty Kids and Pets Interaction Guide from The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.
Very young children still are too curious, and too into pulling and touching, to properly interact with new pets. So wait a few years -- and supervise contact between toddlers and any animals already in the household. Limit childrens' contact with food dishes, litter boxes and the pet's toys.
A guinea pig is an ideal first pet, good for ages 3 to 5. But wait until about age 10 to go with dogs and cats -- a time when kids love animals and, with your guidance, can learn to be responsible pet parents.
Click here for the guide, which includes age-appropriate pet-care tasks and other tips.
So have you had an experience, either in your childhood or with your children, regarding age appropriateness and pets?
My brother and I were in early elementary school when we graduated from turtles and fish to our first real pets; twin black kittens that my mother picked up from someone who was adopting them out. We probably weren't quite ready. My mother was horrified when she found us rolling the mewling kitties down the carpeted stairs, laughing because they looked so funny. We honestly thought the cats liked it. The scolding we got was memorable, however; the kittens were unharmed and the lesson learned.
(photo from the ASPCA)


ANGIE BRENNAN, a Sun-Sentinel page designer,
lives with four dogs and one boyfriend. And has a lifetime of animal stories to share.
DIANE LADE, a reporter on the Sun-Sentinel's Help Team, has lived with cats, dogs, reptiles, fish, an iguana, and an armadillo.
CYNDI METZGER, editor of the Sun-Sentinel's Outlook section, is smitten with Bella, her poodle who regularly ignores requests to sit, stay and get off the ivory-colored sofa.
JOHN TANASYCHUK, a Sun-Sentinel lifestyle writer, has lived with cats as long as he can remember. He and his partner currently share their home with three.

Comments
My first pet was a rabbit and soon after poor Fluffy needed a friend and said friend just happened to be of the opposite sex...... My rabbits were my responsibility and my parents made darn well sure I took care of them.
My first dog was given to me by a neighbor, who said "every child should have a dog!" She was a shepherd/lab mix.
Posted by: KCK | July 23, 2008 9:23 PM
But what does the ASPCA recommend if you already have dogs or cats and THEN baby comes along? You can't just get rid of the dog -- though sadly, that's what a lot of people do. As a rescuer, we get lots of requests to take in dogs from folks who "can't give Fido the time he deserves'' now that baby No. 2 (or No. 1) is on the way. (Makes me wonder if the dog is so much trouble, how in the world do they plan to raise the kid!)
Posted by: Dachsmack | July 29, 2008 5:40 PM