April 2009 Archives

On Share The Spirit! - I interview guests on spiritual topics such as the role of integrative medicine in healing; coping with the loss of loved ones; the new attitude toward spirituality in the media; as well as hearing fascinating stories of individual's personal spiritual journeys. Check back every Wednesday for new postings of interviews and/or footage of my national tour.

 

This week's interview guest is Sharon Snow. Sharon is a Certified Professional Coach and her vision is a world of successful women. She has worked with hundreds of women over the last 17 years through coaching, mentoring, counseling, teaching, seminars, workshops, and presentations, always motivated from her unshakable belief in women and what they can accomplish alone and together.

For more information about me and my work, please visit www.NanOBrien.com.


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On Share The Spirit! - I interview guests on spiritual topics such as the role of integrative medicine in healing; coping with the loss of loved ones; the new attitude toward spirituality in the media; as well as hearing fascinating stories of individual's personal spiritual journeys. Check back every Wednesday for new postings of interviews and/or footage of my national tour.


This week's interview guest is Khenmo Drolma. A former art teacher, hospice worker, and breast cancer survivor, Khenmo believes that this is a time of great change in the Tibetan tradition, and hopes that the full ordination of Buddhist nuns will become a reality in the U.S. To make this possible she founded Vajra Dakini the first Tibetan Buddhist Nunnery in North America, located in Bristol Vermont. And, for the first time in the history of Tibetan Buddhism, this nunnery will have a female abbot.

For more information about me and my work, please visit www.NanOBrien.com.


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Photo: © 2009 Joanne Delabruere for Nan O'Brien

My son, Philip, was an energetic child full of curiosity, ideas, and smiles. He was a gorgeous child with blond hair and beautiful brown eyes - and absolutely no fear.

Philip's sixth birthday fell on a Saturday and that day he ran into my bedroom excitedly shortly after the sun came up. He was already dressed and ready to go to the store to pick out a brand new two-wheeler bike, his special gift for his special day.

When the toy store doors opened a few hours later, Philip and I were already there waiting. He bolted inside and darted amongst the brightly colored choices, quickly settling on a shiny red two-wheeler with racing stripes on the seat and fluorescent tubing on the spokes. His smile said it all and we happily took the bike home.

For a few weeks, Philip had ridden his older brother's hand-me-down bike with training wheels. Today, he informed me on the way home, he was going to ride his new bike without them.

We arrived home and unloaded his bike from the car and Philip proudly wheeled it to the sidewalk. I put my right hand on the back of the seat and my left hand on the handlebars, steadying the bike.

"Climb up," I said, smiling, and he did, adjusting himself on the seat.

"I'm going to run alongside you," I said to my son, "and I want you to put your feet on the pedals and get your balance." And with that, I began running alongside Philip, still holding onto the bike.

"Now, I'm going to let go and give you a big push, and you start pedaling, ok? And here-we-go!" I said. And suddenly I heard panic well up in Philip's voice!

"Don't let go! Don't let go!" he cried out, just as I released the bike.

"Pedal!" I shouted after him, cupping my hands to my mouth, my heart in my throat as I watched him wobbling, jerking the handlebars first to the right and then to the left, instinctively trying to keep his balance.

Just as it looked as if he would surely crash, Philip suddenly found his stride and began heading - fairly straight - down the sidewalk. I could hear him screaming, "YEESSS!" in pride and excitement, as I stood there laughing out loud through the tears.

As Philip grew, there were many times I helped him gain his balance, offering him a steady hand as he embraced a new challenge, but there was always that time, that moment, when I had to let go and step back, and trust that he would find his own momentum on what was his journey. I was responsible for giving him the start, but he had the right - and the duty to self - to make the journey his own. That doesn't mean I wasn't running alongside him just in case he fell, to offer a steadying hand yet again; to help him climb back onto the proverbial bike. But if I had never let go, Philip never would have learned to ride, to live his life; to have the strength and courage to enter into service to his country, as he is doing next week.

Perhaps there are those in your life who need you to not be afraid, to let them live their lives, even if it is not necessarily the life you would have chosen for them. Trust and let go; and realize that sometimes the bike you need to let go of and trust the most may be your own.

Intuitively yours,
Nan O'Brien

For more information about me and my work, please visit www.NanOBrien.com.


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On Share The Spirit! - I interview guests on spiritual topics such as the role of integrative medicine in healing; coping with the loss of loved ones; the new attitude toward spirituality in the media; as well as hearing fascinating stories of individual's personal spiritual journeys. Check back every Wednesday for new postings of interviews and/or footage of my national tour.



Nina Meyerhof, Ph. D. is the founder and director of "Children for the Earth" www.childrenoftheearth.org, a worldwide organization dedicated to promote spirituality among children, especially in impoverished countries. She is a goodwill ambassador for Spirituality worldwide.

For more information about me and my work, please visit www.NanOBrien.com.


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As the warmth of the sun has finally thawed the thick ice of Lake Champlain, so, too, do we now feel the beginning of our personal loosening from winter's grasp, becoming restless; yearning for the open air and sunshine of Spring. It is at this time of year that our spirits become as vibrant and alive as the flowers that raise up in a chorus of color, creating a beautiful symphony of family, friendship, and fellowship.

We seek balance in our lives, intently trying over and over again when we fall short of walking the delicate line of giving and receiving; nurturing others, while nurturing ourselves. We seek beauty, eager to experience the connectivity with the sights and smells of Spring: Freshly mown grass, trees in full bloom, a gentle wind over the lake. We seek solitude beneath the sun, whether in quiet repose, or in the pages of a good book. We enjoy the innocence of a child's understanding and respect the dignity found in the wisdom of our elders. We reflect, we re-evaluate, we listen more carefully to others and to ourselves, all in an effort to discern those things in our life that we need to keep - and those that we need to release.

For those of us who are in pain or conflict, we turn our attention to the necessary steps to move our lives forward. For those of us who are not, we embrace with gratitude that which we hold in our hand. We garner strength and courage from the brilliance of the world around us. We give thanks for the blessings of our families; we say prayers for those who have sacrificed their lives on our behalf.

Though not always an easy task, it is nonetheless a rejuvenating time of spiritual cleansing. It is a time for connecting with that place deep within that is urging us to overcome those walls that have hindered us in the past and to journey toward a healthier way of living from here forward.

So as you stand at the precipice of Spring, remember to not only see, but look at your life; not only hear, but listen to your inner spirit; not only breathe, but take in the splendor of the world around you; and always, always, seek the grace found in nature that surely displays the magnificence of God's presence in our lives.

Intuitively Yours,
Nan O'Brien

For more information about me and my work, please visit www.NanOBrien.com.


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On Share The Spirit! - I interview guests on spiritual topics such as the role of integrative medicine in healing; coping with the loss of loved ones; the new attitude toward spirituality in the media; as well as hearing fascinating stories of individual's personal spiritual journeys. Check back every Wednesday for new postings of interviews and/or footage of my national tour.

In the fourth episode of "Share The Spirit With Nan O'Brien," I welcome Jeannie Lynch and Heather Paine as guests. Jeannie Lynch, a Branch Manager of Key Bank, and Heather Paine, owner of a candle and art store, have both experienced the devastating loss of a loved one. Their courageous stories of finding spiritual growth and strength as a result of personal tragedy are as inspirational as they are uplifting.

 

Four years ago, Heather Paine lost her only brother to a suicide, changing her life from that day forward. Finding solitude and comfort in candlemaking became a mechanism to deal with her grief. The pain of her loss propelled Heather to look for answers and, as a result of her new awareness, providing an outreach to others who have also experienced suicide.

She currently devotes much of her time to suicide awareness and suicide prevention programs in addition to helping individuals deal with questions and issues unique to suicide deaths, with the goal of finding some sense of peace during the confusion and aftermath of a suicide. Today, more than therapy for her grief, Heather's candlemaking is a business dedicated to helping others.


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On Share The Spirit! - I interview guests on spiritual topics such as the role of integrative medicine in healing; coping with the loss of loved ones; the new attitude toward spirituality in the media; as well as hearing fascinating stories of individual's personal spiritual journeys. Check back every Wednesday for new postings of interviews and/or footage of my national tour.

In the fourth episode of "Share The Spirit With Nan O'Brien," I welcome Jeannie Lynch and Heather Paine as guests. Jeannie Lynch, a Branch Manager of Key Bank, and Heather Paine, owner of a candle and art store, have both experienced the devastating loss of a loved one. Their courageous stories of finding spiritual growth and strength as a result of personal tragedy are as inspirational as they are uplifting.


 

Jeannie Lynch has been serving continuously for 17 years as a branch manager of Key Bank.
For the past two years, she has represented Key Bank in a program called Key4Women. Key4Women is a program for women-owned businesses that supports financial success by providing customized solutions, access to capital, ongoing education, and networking opportunities. Jeannie Lynch also serves on the Board for the Campaign to End Childhood Hunger, a non-profit organization that supports programs to keep children from going hungry.

Jeannie lost her daughter Ila in a car accident. The grief over the loss of her child has brought her to a new spiritual awareness. Today she is a great help to parents who experience similar situations.

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