Calming Thunderstorm Fears
Dear Tom,
My son, age 7, has become deathly fearful of thunderstorms. Short of professional help, can you offer any suggestions?
James Smith, Madison, Wis.
Dear James,
The high winds, beating rain, lightning and crashing thunder of violent storms prove humbling to all of us, but they can be especially frightening to children. Here are a few tips that will allow you to confront and ease children's storm fears: Communicate with them—don't deny their fears. Let them know it is normal to feel afraid and explain that the storm will end. Remain calm and cool. Children take behavioral cues from parents and react accordingly. Shelter family pets during a storm so children will know they are safe. Assure children that lost or damaged toys, articles of clothing, etc., can be replaced; explain that it is more important that the family is safe.